I agree with LL. I bought that book thinking it might offer some in-sight. Her in-sight into my situation? That I should feel LUCKY to have netted myself a MW, because, after all, aren't all men just out for some cheap ass and no emotional connection? Yeah, right, of course, FUCK YOU.
She's just bitter because obviously, she felt the same way all of us did...and she got burned badly. So instead of taking it as a lesson and actually putting together a book about being the OW/OM, she put together a list of all the reasons why not to be in the situation. It's useless.
Sorry, did I rant?